I've had this question on my mind for a while now, and I've finally decided to ask it. Are there any gay guys/couples out there that don't believe in sex on the first date or first night you meet? Is there anyone out there who wants to hold off on sex until a certain point in the relationship? Please don't take this as an insult if you're somebody who didn't hesitate before jumping into bed, I know I've never been very good at it (waiting, that is). I've always wondered that, because most people have this image in their head that gays are all about the sex, and I've just got to believe there are people out there who don't want to jump in bed immediately. Lemme know what you guys have to say.