My "husband" and I have been together for 6 years in April. We got married in Toronto a couple of years ago. When we first got together our sex life was "fun". He wasn't "wild" or extremely experimental, but we pushed a few limits. As time went by, our sex life diminished. The experimenting became rare, and the activities became routine, and few and far between. Where we used to have sex 2-3-4 times a week, now I'm lucky to get a bj in the shower once a month.
I've brought this up to him several times in the past, and he admits that there are some intimacy issues (his whole family seems to have them). But I just don't know what to do in order to jump start our sex life again. I know he loves me, but the non-physical issue is causing me to feel insecure about our entire relationship.